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A Recent Email That Got Me Teary


RED MARBLES
   
    I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes.
   
    I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprizing a basket of freshly picked green peas.
   
    I paid for my potatoes, but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas.
   
    I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.  Pondering the peas, I couldn’t help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.
   
    ‘Hello Barry, how are you today?’
   
    ‘H’lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus’ admirin’ them peas.  They sure look good.’
   
    ‘They are good, Barry. How’s your Ma?’
   
    ‘Fine. Gittin’ stronger alla’ time.’
   
    ‘Good. Anything I can help you with?’
   
    ‘No, Sir. Jus’ admirin’ them peas.’
   
    ‘Would you like take some home?’ asked Mr. Miller.
   
    ‘No, Sir. Got nuthin’ to pay for ‘em with.’
   
    ‘Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?’
   
    ‘All I got’s my prize marble here.’
   
    ‘Is that right? Let me see it’ said Miller.
   
    ‘Here ’tis. She’s a dandy.’
   
    ‘I can see that. Hmmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?’ the store owner asked.
   
    ‘Not zackley but almost.’
   
    ‘Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble’, Mr. Miller told the boy.
   
    ‘Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.’
   
    Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.
   
    With a smile said, ‘There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances.  Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.
   
    When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn’t like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.’
   
    I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man.
   
    A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.
   
    Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one.
   
    Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died.
   
    They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them.
   
    Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.
   
    Ahead of us in line were three young men.
   
    One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts…all very professional looking.
   
    They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband’s casket.
   
    Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket.
   
    Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket.
   
    Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.
   
    Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller.  I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband’s bartering for marbles.
   
    With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.
   
    ‘Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.  They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim ‘traded’ them.
   
    Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size….they came to pay their debt.’
   
    ‘We’ve never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,’ she confided, ‘but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ‘.
   
    With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.
   
    The Moral : We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.
   
    Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn’t make yourself.
   
    An unexpected phone call from an old friend.
   
    Green stoplights on your way to work.
   
    The fastest line at the grocery store.
   
    A good sing-along song on the radio.
   
    Your keys found right where you left them.
   
    Send this to the people you’ll never forget.
   
    I just Did…
   
    If you don’t send it to anyone, it means you are in way too much of a hurry to even notice the ordinary miracles when they occur.
   
    It’s not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!
   
   
   
   
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    ‘Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.’ ~Unknown

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2 Responses to “A Recent Email That Got Me Teary”

  1. 1
    Maarten de Vries:

    Dear Glenn,

    Great story!

    Sorry I haven’t mailed you recently. Speaking about tears, might I put you onto two movies with a deep message. One is a Slavo-Belgian production, called “No-Man’s Land”, which portrays UNPROFOR and the Western media as they are: totally indifferent to suffering humanity. In this tragi-comedy of life, Simon Callow brilliantly plays a political Colonel, the anithesis to my Comrades in Arms (I was a Vietnam Conscript, and knew many sufferers from PNG and the Burma Rail during WWII). In our Army the Colonel would have been shot down by his own troops in his helicopter. We would sympathise with the two local protagonists (indeed one of mates shared General Dalaire’s anguish in Ruanda in 1992: never the same again).

    The other is “Boy in the Striped Pyjamas” set in Nazi Germany, a stunning story of divine retribution. In the former I am in essence the guy in the last scene. In the latter I relate to Pavel (“He says he’s a doctor, but he can’t be much good: now he’s peeling potatoes”).

    You know, if I’d been PM of Australia instead of Howard when Bush insulted me publicly as “an ugly little short bald guy” I would have decked him, and told him he doesn’t get away with insulting my Country. Probaly would have got gunned down by the CIA goons, but you know! I would have died a hero to 3/4 of Australia, maybe 90% of the world, and perhaps even 3/4 of the USA.

    Now we have Obama making a “core” political promise, “There will be more violence in Iraq” (Bush would have said Ai-rack). None of them get it, Thou shalt NOT kill: thou shalt NOT covet. There is no Commandment (or ethic in any other society except the “Culture of Greed” – the worship of Mammon) which says “Thou can kill to gratify thy covetousness”. What have the people of Afghanistan EVER done to the West before two centuries ago? What did the people of Iraq EVER do to the USA before 1962?

    I tell you: these Rabid Lemmings as I call them, who “Rule ze vorldt” are totally without any Conscience. Or Commonsense.

    Well, I LIVE…..still, though even my undeluded friends often think that is a dubious proposition.

    Love, because it is MY God’s Love to be shared

    Ex “coon” Dr Maarten de Vries (“coon” is a term of abuse against non-whites like me)

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    San Jose Girl:

    Saw your blog bookmarked on Delicious

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