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Our mind can be our best friend or our worst enemy. It all depends on how we are programmed. 
 
Our basic belief systems, or our programming, is set by the time we are three to five years old. Of course we [...]]]></description>
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<p>Our <strong>mind</strong> can be our best<strong> friend or</strong> our worst<strong> enemy</strong>. It all depends on how we are programmed. </p>
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<p>Our<strong> basic</strong> belief systems, or our <strong>programming</strong>, is <strong>set</strong> by the time we are three to five years old. Of course we continue to<strong> learn</strong> for years and hopefully <strong>all our</strong> <strong>lives</strong> yet <strong>none</strong> of this learning will <strong>change</strong> our basic<strong> belief</strong> system. Whatever was<strong> going</strong> <strong>on</strong> in our <strong>family</strong> dynamic when we were growing up <strong>sets</strong> the<strong> stage</strong> for how we will live the<strong> rest</strong> of our <strong>lives</strong>. This includes <strong>behaviors</strong> and <strong>habits</strong> that anyone who has tried <strong>to change</strong> them knows are very <strong>ingrained</strong> into who we are.</p>
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<p><strong>Habits</strong> and patterns of behavior are <strong>hard</strong> wired synaptic <strong>memory</strong> loops in your<strong> brain</strong> that respond to<strong> sensory</strong> stimulus. This means when you<strong> encounter</strong> an event,<strong> sight</strong>,<strong> sound</strong>, whatever, in order to <strong>respond</strong> to this, a message goes from your senses to your <strong>brain</strong> finding a reference to know how to <strong>react</strong>. This is why <strong>people</strong> will keep <strong>reacting</strong> the same way <strong>to triggers</strong> in their lives and <strong>feel powerless</strong> to change it.</p>
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<p>Does this mean we are <strong>doomed</strong> to be the way we were <strong>programmed</strong> to be by <strong>influences</strong> outside of who we really are? <strong>NO WAY!</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Meditation</strong> is the key to <strong>settling</strong> the mind down, for if it stays very<strong> active</strong> it will not give up the <strong>control</strong> it has over us. It is known that <strong>during</strong> times of great<strong> stress</strong> people will go into <strong>patterns</strong> and <strong>habits</strong> of their<strong> basic belief systems</strong>. Meditation <strong>reduces stress</strong> and opens the door of the <strong>subconscious</strong> mind where we can develop<strong> sub-belief systems</strong>.</p>
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<p>We<strong> create</strong> sub-belief systems that we can <strong>reference</strong> to deal with various<strong> events</strong> in our lives. Once set we have a <strong>choice</strong> of how to react to the<strong> triggers</strong> that would have normally pushed us into the<strong> old patterns</strong> and habits. The more we consciously <strong>choose</strong> the sub-belief systems the more they <strong>become</strong> the default<strong> setting</strong>. Sub-belief <strong>systems</strong> are formed and <strong>maintained</strong> in the <strong>subconscious</strong> mind and <strong>meditation</strong> is how we arrive there.</p>
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<p>The more you<strong> use</strong> these synaptic memory <strong>loops</strong>, the more <strong>established</strong> they become. If you <strong>stop using </strong>them they will eventually <strong>disconnect</strong>. This means that with effort you can <strong>change</strong> anything about your <strong>patterns and habits</strong> that you do not like. A great movie that explains this is <strong>“What The Bleep Do We Know”</strong>. Rent it or better yet buy it and <strong>watch it</strong> often.</p>
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<p>There are<strong> two</strong> parts to your mind the <strong>conscious</strong> and the <strong>subconscious</strong>. Most of the time in life we<strong> operate</strong> using our <strong>conscious</strong> mind as it is necessary for <strong>daily</strong> thinking tasks. This is the <strong>main</strong> reason it becomes so <strong>dominant</strong> as it is so used to being in<strong> control</strong>. The problem is the <strong>conscious</strong> is just a very<strong> small</strong> part of our <strong>mind</strong>. The<strong> subconscious</strong>, is in truth so <strong>much more</strong>.</p>
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<p>Normally your<strong> subconscious</strong> only has <strong>expression</strong> while you are<strong> sleeping</strong> because the <strong>conscious</strong> is then<strong> unconscious</strong>. This is where your<strong> dreams</strong> originate and if you do remember your dreams you can<strong> relate</strong> that the <strong>language</strong> of the<strong> unconscious</strong> is rather confusing at times. This is because you are<strong> listening</strong> to a part of you that <strong>you</strong> have never met <strong>before</strong>. It is not unlike meeting a<strong> stranger</strong> from another country who speaks a<strong> different</strong> language from yourself. If you were to <strong>move</strong> to that country and <strong>immersed</strong> yourself in that <strong>culture</strong> you would soon learn to <strong>understand</strong> what others were <strong>saying</strong>. This is <strong>true</strong> of your subconscious as well. When you practice <strong>meditation</strong> regularly the messages you <strong>receive</strong> when sleeping and even when you are awake will make <strong>perfect</strong> sense to you.</p>
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<p>The <strong>purpose</strong> is to align your mind. When your mind is <strong>focused</strong> there is nothing you cannot <strong>accomplish</strong>. Most of us live<strong> scattered</strong> lives. Our minds are <strong>unsettled</strong> most or all of the <strong>time</strong>. When we <strong>meditate</strong> and tune in to our subconscious we<strong> align</strong> ourselves with our <strong>truth</strong> and when we have our conscious mind <strong>focused</strong> on the same path then nothing will stand in <strong>our way</strong>. </p>
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<p>When our <strong>whole mind</strong> is focused on a direction in life, then we<strong> create</strong> an energy that brings in help from<strong> sources</strong> outside of ourselves. <strong>Soon</strong> people and events line up with your <strong>intention</strong> to help you <strong>succeed</strong>.</p>
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<p>Your mind is very <strong>powerful</strong> and I want to make sure it is <strong>working</strong> for you, helping  you to <strong>achieve</strong> your goal. If you are ready to make <strong>positive</strong> changes to align yourself with your<strong> truth</strong>, I want to hear from you.</p>
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